How do you get guys to look past your body & like u for u?

I have been treated like a piece of meat since i was 11 years old. Guys hollering and whistling at me,grabbing me at the bar. I recently lost a good chunk of weight and I forgot how men view you as. Are their decent men out there? I don't sleep around and I don't wear anything skanky because no one wants to see that and I don't want the negative attention I get even in sweatpants. I'm decent looking not ugly or fugly but it seems everything is all about with men. I just want to meet a good guy which I have but he wants to be "just friends". I don't know what to do any suggestions?