WOMEN ONLY! If u've had a hysterectomy..how did u feel?

Im now 26 at 20 i had my son..didnt want anymore children so 2mnths before my 22nd bday i had a tubiligation..didnt bother me, i was fine being able to not have kids anymore. Then at 23 i got Fibromyalgia ( a chronic pain condition) because of it my menstrals hospitalized me every month so after a yr of medication failures, my last option was a hysterectomy. i was fine with the procedure..but when i woke up n a nurse asked me how i felt, i cried out " i don't feel whole anymore." and i dont...yrs later im still bothered by the fact that even tho i had my tubes tied, a big part of my feminity was forced outta me by lack of othr options. if uve had a hystorectomy..how did u feel? i still have my cervix n eggs. Even is different..will this feeling of not feeling whole ever go away?